Two day rule in dating
We also seem to be increasingly taken in by dating propaganda from across the pond.
Modern day media has a lot to answer for, but one of the biggest impacts it’s had relates to what our idea of the sexual status quo looks like.
I just had to make sure that I was sexually involved with the person because I liked them and not simply liking the person because I was sexually involved.
Again, if the goal is finding a person to be with for the unforeseeable future, then what’s the hurry? Studies show that the longer couples wait until having sex the more positive the outcome of their relationships.
When women talk to each other about dating, it often feels as though there’s an elephant in the room.
The message is clear: ten days after meeting someone, if you’re not having sex, there is a major problem.Unfortunately, the risks within the Black community are substantially higher.Ultimately, I have decided to implement a three-month abstinence policy – famously or infamously known as “the 90-day rule.” I will not become sexually involved with a member of the opposite sex until after at least three months of dating.In the United States, the estimated lifetime risk of contracting HIV is 1 in 16 for Black males and 1 in 30 for Black females.Compare that to the 1 in 104 risk for White males and the 1 in 588 risk for White females.