Dating for losers
There are countless posts online where women complain about their deadbeat boyfriends for never paying for anything, never buying them gifts, always playing video games all day long while still living at home in their parent’s basement, and never holding on to a job for more than a year to save their lives.Yet, these women still latch on, hoping they’ll one day change their man for the better.Society always sees men as losers, and women as misguided. Read the 175 comments so far on this post with fascinating perspective from both men and women.One of the best excuses women tell me for not wanting to be with an attractive guy who has all she wants is that she’s afraid she won’t be able to hang on to him.Which begs the question: Settling for a deadbeat loser is like settling for a job you hate.There are way too many people who hate their jobs and keep on doing them, just like there are way too many women who settle for men who treat them poorly.
Unfortunately, no matter how hard she tries, she can’t teach a gorilla how to put down the toilet seat, pay for dinner, and write her sweet notes of nothing.
Before Personal Capital, I had to log into eight different systems to track 28 different accounts (brokerage, multiple banks, 401K, etc) to manage my finances.
Now, I can just log into Personal Capital to see how my stock accounts are doing, how my net worth is progressing, and where my spending is going.
You’ll be able to change him for the better, which is hardly ever the case.
The problem with this thought process is that he might actually lose one of the three must haves, and then you’re really going to feel bitter for wasting your precious youth on him! If we never try meeting other people, we will never get rejected.